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Welcome to R slash top posts, where O.P. steals an engagement ring in the middle of a proposal. Our next Reddit post comes from R slash am I the butthole.

Am I the butthole for interrupting a marriage proposal on Valentine's Day because it was actually

my ring? I'm a 32-year-old guy and I went out to dinner with my girlfriend who's 30 on Valentine's

day. We went to an upscale restaurant. Honestly, this whole thing would have been avoided if I did the proposal

the way I wanted, but I knew from talking with my girlfriend that she wanted something in public,

but intimate, with champagne and good food and other aspects. So after being together for three

years, having been living together for one year, and knowing that my girlfriend was getting

a little antsy about marriage,

I decided to save up, buy the ring, and set up the proposal. Her friend Ronnie, who helped me

pick the ring, was awesome enough to get it on video for us. I talked to the wait staff as I made

the reservation and they agreed to put the ring on the red velvet cupcake that she would get

for dessert. She always gets the red velvet cupcake that she would get for dessert.

She always gets the red velvet.

I had a whole speech.

Dinner goes great.

Ronnie prepped the video from the corner.

Desert comes out and there's no ring.

I give the waitress a look and she seems confused.

As I'm trying to figure out what happened while trying to not tip off my girlfriend,

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