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Welcome to R slash relationships, where Opie finds out that she's the other woman.

Our next credit post is from OK Singer.

I just found out that I'm a mistress of four years.

Oh my God, how do I tell her?

So I've been in a relationship with this man for four years.

I'm a 36-year-old woman, and he's 48.

Me, my friends and family use him as the standard when speaking about good men on a regular basis.

We met each other's friends and family. We traveled together.

And yesterday, I found an anniversary card to his wife.

I'll love you until the end of time. Signed your husband.

Oh my God! I've been snooping since then to figure out who the hell I've wrapped my life around for the last four years.

And I don't understand the concept of a long-distance marriage, but that seems to be the case.

There's so much, and I'm unsure how to process it to proceed.

His wife is listed as the owner of his business, and potentially, I'm connecting dots or making assumptions based on a number of things I found, leaving her job where she had

so much success and is so loved. I am so uncomfortable with the idea of initiating communication

with her, but she deserves to know because she could be burning her life to the ground for a man

who didn't just cheat in a physical sense, but carried on an entire relationship. She deserves so

much better, but I'm nervous that she'll feel anger towards me. I know I have to do it anyways,

and if she's mad, she's mad. I don't know how I'd react. Getting your heartbroken

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