Welcome to R-slash Best of Redditor Updates, where O.P.'s fiance finds out that her mom was a

prostitute who slept with his uncle. Her next red oppose comes from R-slash and by the butthole.

Am I the butthole for breaking up my engagement because what my fiance said about my mom?

I'm a 26 year old woman, and my dad left my mom when I was only 5 years old.

I also have a brother who's 21. My dad left the country with his mistress and never tried to

contact us again. We're really poor. My mom had to do some immoral stuff to get food on the table.

She was a stripper and also sometimes pleased men to get money for us. She put me in my brother

through school. I understood why my mom did what she did because we had no money and she wanted

us to have a better life. I'm not ashamed because of it. I also started working part-time when I was

14. I was a good student so I got a scholarship to a good university. My mom eventually stopped

stripping when my brother got a part-time job too. She now only works as a waitress. I met my fiance,

Harvey, who's 27 in college. He was my first serious relationship. We both loved each other.

I never told Harvey about my mom's past because my mom made me promise to never say that to anyone.

I kept that promise but it felt so wrong to keep this huge promise away from my fiance.

Harvey only knew that my family was extremely poor but he doesn't care about that. He's a very

sweet guy who can always take care of me. He even covered some of the cost of my brother's education

as well even though I told him not to. My mom also likes Harvey which is why she told me not to tell

Harvey anything about her past or what she does for a living. So a week ago my mom and I went to

Harvey's house to meet his parents. I didn't realize that his uncle and aunt would also be there.

Upon seeing Harvey's uncle my mom's face went white as if she saw a ghost. His uncle also kept

staring at my mom as if he knows her. My mom felt uncomfortable and said that she wants to go home.

Harvey was confused by it but nonetheless we left earlier than anticipated. The next day my fiance

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