Welcome to our slash Best of Redditor Updates, where OP may have married a murderer.

Our next reddit post comes from our slash Muslim marriage.

Salam alaikum.

I'm looking for guidance or comfort because I'm in a difficult situation and I'm struggling

with how to proceed.

I'm a 29 year old woman who's Canadian and I'm at my now husband who's 29 and an Egyptian

Canadian in early 2021 via a dating app.

We also had some mutual friends at the same university.

I quickly fell for him and after a year we got engaged.

Two months later we had our cat big top which is an Islamic ceremony.

It was very small and had immediate family only.

Okay I looked that up and apparently a cat big top is a Muslim marriage ceremony where

you're not expected to live together afterwards because for whatever reason you just can't

live together.

I might be misunderstanding this if I am let me know in the comments.

Our wedding reception is in one week, four and a half months after the cat big top.

There's obviously a fair amount of stress as we're stretched pretty thin to make the

wedding work shortly after purchasing our first home.

My husband is in a new job and I'm in a famously high-stress job.

I definitely acknowledge that I have not been my best self lately trying to make ends meet

and get myself through each day, frankly, onto the red flag.

My husband is a charismatic, funny guy.

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