Welcome to our slash best of redditor updates, where OP thinks that she's finally found her

long lost brother. Our next reddit post is from a relationship advice. I think I found my brother

who ran away from home nine years ago and we never found him, and I don't know how to approach him

in case it's not him. I'm a 23 year old woman, and my long lost brother is 21. For background,

my younger brother ran away from home when I was 14. Apparently, my mother beat him very hard

and told him to go away, he's not her child anymore after he broke a new TV while playing football

in the house. She said that she didn't mean it, and she was just disciplining him, and she said

that in the heat of the moment. My brother was always a troublesome kid, carefree, a little too

adventurous, but he had a good heart, and I loved him very much. At first, we thought that he would

just come back. Then hours went by, and we started to get worried. After a day without him coming

back, we started to search for him. We asked around, called the cops, and filed a missing person

report. We searched for him for a long time, and we never found him. His disappearance tore my

family apart. My dad blamed my mom, and they divorced shortly after my 15th birthday.

The relationship between my grandparents and my mom deteriorated. Fast forward to about a month

ago. I got a job as an intern at a logistic company in my country. I'm an assistant to a driver

dispatcher. One of the driver's names caught my attention a week ago. It's the exact same name

as my brothers. The driver came back about three days ago from a shipment, and I've been kind

of observing him, and he kind of looks like my brother. He resembles my dad. I haven't been

able to sleep for days wondering if I should approach him. What if it's not him? I'm a shy person,

and I'm really not good with people. Will you think that I'm crazy? Should I at least do some more

homework before I approach him? And if it is him, what should I tell my parents? Then about a

week later, OP posted an update. So I approached the guy a day after this post using some of the

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