Welcome to R-Slash, am I the butthole where OP tells an infertile woman that he's glad that she

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brother and my sister-in-law that it's good that they can't have children? Okay, I know that what

I said was awful, but please hear me out. I'm a 37 year old guy and my wife is 38. We have two kids,

age 17 and four. Neither were planned, but we were happy that we have them both. Our 17 year old

has cerebral palsy and is in a wheelchair. He can dress himself, he talks, he does great in school,

and overall he's a great, great kid. My brother and his wife can't have kids. They've been through a

lot of in vitro fertilization and other treatments, but it hasn't been successful. I know that they're

both devastated about it, especially my sister-in-law. We were all at my mother's house for dinner,

the other night, and my brother and my sister-in-law were telling us about their last unsuccessful round

of IVF, and they said this might be it, and they probably won't try again. We all said that we're

sorry about that, and that it must be awful. Later that evening, my mom was asking about my 17 year

old's plans for the future. How school's going? Does he have a girlfriend? Does he like any girls?

You know, typical grandma stuff. My sister-in-law then said, can he even date? She said that to me,

and luckily my son didn't hear it. I just looked at her and said, what? She then said,

well, he'll be in your care forever. Do you really want him to bring a woman into that?

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