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on my husband for lying about an emergency to get me to leave my brother's wedding early?

My husband has been sick for a few days. He got sick around the time of my brother's wedding.

I've been taking care of him 24 hours a day for days now. He's on medication and can move,

go to the bathroom, and eat on his own. I told him I was going to my brother's wedding,

and he threw a fit saying that I couldn't leave him alone when he's sick. I told him that he's not

that sick, that it's just some stomach ache that he's getting treatment for, and I suggested that

he call a sister to come stay with him. He said no and told me to miss the wedding. I got upset

and bluntly said no and that he could survive for a few hours while I attend the wedding.

He soaked, and as I was leaving, he said that he hoped that I never come back. That hurt my feelings,

but I know that he was just mad and that he didn't mean it. At the wedding, I got a text from him

saying that he lost his balance and fell off the stairs and heard his back. He said that he was

in a lot of pain. He threw up and he couldn't move, and he insisted that I get home ASAP.

I freaked out and started calling his phone, but he didn't answer. I thought that he must have

passed out, so I freaked out even more. I got in my car and drove back to our house immediately.

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