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Welcome to R slash am I the butthole where a child abuser gets the snot beaten out of them.

Am I the butthole for punching my ex-husband's new girlfriend for hitting my daughter?

I'm a 23-year-old woman and I have a 6-year-old daughter. I had her at 17 years old with my ex-husband, Devin. Devin

and I got married at 18 and got divorced at 20 due to his cheating. He doesn't pay a dime to

financially support our daughter. I'm our daughter's full-time caretaker.

My ex-husband only sees our daughter once a month. I beg him to spend more time with her,

but I shouldn't have to beg him to be a father. He recently got into a relationship with his new girlfriend, Haley.

Ever since Haley entered my ex-husband's life, she bashed me. She blamed me for my daughter being autistic.

She said that my daughter is autistic because I coddle her. I do not cuddle my child. I legitimately

try my best with the situation that I was dealt. My daughter was diagnosed with autism at four years of age.

We have her in speech therapy and behavioral therapy. She has a therapist she sees twice a week. She also has developmental delays.

I try to work with her every day on her speech and behavior. Yesterday, my daughter went to go stay

the night at her dad's house. Her dad's girlfriend, Haley, was there.

She lives there now. My daughter's father called me. He told me to come over and pick up our child

because she was upset. I went to go pick her up and I saw that she had red marks, welts,

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