Welcome to R-Slash, Am I the Butthole?

Where a Karen expects a free, all expenses paid trip to Disney World.

Am I the Butthole for not giving my sister-in-law and her family a luxury vacation?

I travel a lot for work, so I have so many hotel and airline points, it's crazy.

This summer I'm taking my family to Disney World.

We're gonna stay at one of the resorts on the property.

My sister-in-law and her family had a hard time during the pandemic,

so I decided to do something nice and invite them along.

My treat.

I said that I would pay for their flights, hotel, and park tickets.

Everyone was excited until my sister-in-law started talking to my wife.

Now she's upset that we're staying at one of the resorts and they have to stay in Disney Springs.

Apparently, I'm being cheap by using points for their hotel instead of just paying for them to stay at the same resort as us.

My wife told her sister-in-brother-in-law to shut the F up and accept the gift, but they didn't.

They told my in-laws that I was making their kids jealous by not letting them enjoy the same stuff as us.

To be clear, the hotel that I booked for them is very nice.

It's just not the grand Floridian.

So I finally talked to them, and I gave them the choice of accepting my gift,

or not coming since I could still cancel their reservations.

They started yelling at me for being a butthole and for taking something away from their kids.

I had talked to them like adults, but when they started screaming, their kids heard them and found out that they might not be going to Disney World.

Now their kids are pissed at their parents for possibly effing up their vacation.

...