Welcome to R-Slash, am I the butthole, where a guy thinks that he gets to own other women's

uteruses. Am I the butthole for calling my friend delusional? Okay, so for background, I'm a 23-year-old

woman, and I'm friends with this 36-year-old guy. He doesn't have kids or a significant other.

He wants kids, but he doesn't want a baby mama or all that drama, so he's been looking for a surrogate.

He asked most of his friends, and they all said no. He asked one of his friends if she would,

and if she did, he'll pay for her medical bills, and she can stay with him. But he doesn't

want her to have any other kids or surrogate for anyone else. She said no. I told him that he's

delusional to think that someone would be his surrogate and not have kids of their own or be a

surrogate for anyone else. Now, here's where I might be the butthole. He said to me that he was

picky, not delusional. I told him that he's delusional to think that any woman would want to be a

surrogate with his ridiculous requests. Also, he wants to do natural insemination because he finds

him attractive. So for clarity, what OP means here is that this guy wants to do it the old-fashioned

way, i.e. passionate hugging, to inseminate the woman. I told him that he's weird and needs to get

a grip on reality. He called me a butthole for not understanding him. Part of me feels like a

butthole because I was kind of harsh. But I don't know. Am I the butthole? Yo, this guy thinks

it just because a woman is his surrogate that he owns her uterus for the rest of her life.

OP, you're right. This guy is delusional. What is he talking about? Why? Why do you want to hang out

with this guy? What a weirdo. Look, there's nothing wrong with an adult man who decides he wants

kids wanting to have a kid through a surrogate. But to essentially own a random woman

uterus in the process is just not so man. That is so weird. OP, you get 0 out of 5 buttholes.

I'm giving this guy, gosh, what's even a good score here? 2.5 out of 5 buttholes, it's super

misogynistic. Am I the butthole for saying that I'll be driving myself and paying for my own

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