Welcome to R-Slash, am I the bad guy, where OP saves his girlfriend's life and his girlfriend gets mad about it?

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I'm a 28 year old guy, and am I the bad guy for telling my fiance, who's 29, that I could not rely on her in a life or death situation?

I have what I think is a very good sense of situational awareness.

I'm a quick thinker, and I tend to not panic in dangerous situations.

My fiance, on the other hand, is the exact opposite.

If I'm being nice, I would say that she doesn't have an awareness of danger.

If I'm being honest, I would say that she has the survival instinct of a panda raised in captivity.

She has no sense of danger around her.

Doesn't constantly examine her surroundings for things that could be dangerous,

and when things are bad, her reaction is to panic and scream.

On Friday, we went out on a friend of mine's boat, and we got into a dangerous situation.

We were anticipating light rain, but we ended up with downpour high winds and high waves.

While me and the other men were trying to strap things down and keep the boat from capsizing,

my fiance screamed and cried for dear life.

She was in hysterics, and I get that it was a scary situation, but...

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