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Am I the bad guy for telling my brother-in-law to get over himself and quit holding a 10-year grudge?

My brother-in-law, who's married to my sister, is a general contractor.

About 10 years ago, my dad and brother were building a deck at my parents' home.

They asked my brother-in-law if they could borrow his skid loader, but he said no.

They prepared the ground as best they could without the skid loader, but got to the point that they couldn't go on without it.

They went to my sister's house to ask again, but found out that my brother-in-law went out of town.

They talked my sister into letting them borrow his skid loader, so she took them down to his construction lot,

and they hooked it up to my dad's truck.

The next part I'm not sure of, since I don't know much about towing.

But from what I was told, dad's truck wasn't big enough or powerful enough to tow the skid loader on the dump trailer,

so he lost control and wrecked.

The truck, trailer, and skid loader was totaled.

Hold on, hold on, we gotta stop the story.

What is a skid loader?

And how much is a skid loader? I don't have any idea.

Oh, a skid loader. You guys know what a skid loader is.

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