Welcome to R-Slashe, am I the bad guy where OP is struggling to prevent her husband from killing their child?

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Am I the bad guy for telling my spouse that they could kill our child?

My spouse is a very lax person where it's not a big deal seems to constantly be their mentality.

I'm on the opposite spectrum where I overthink and freak out over everything.

I realize that and I'm working on it. However, sometimes I feel like my spouse uses the fact

that I overreact and dismisses everything, whereas they never admit that they underreact to

most situations. I think meeting in the middle would be a healthy balance. We just had a baby,

and I've always been very stringent on safe sleeping habits and just overall safety precautions.

I just do what the CDC and pediatricians recommend. If the pediatrician and or the CDC don't

warrant strong concern about it, then I tend to say, hey, maybe I'm just being paranoid and I should

let this slide. My spouse has on multiple occasions left burping cloths in or on the crib.

I've politely spoken to them about it and they say they'll try to do better.

However, since it keeps happening, I've started to get angrier and here's where I might be the

bad guy. I've taken to lecturing them and probably talking down to them because in my opinion,

this behavior is childish and could kill our baby. My spouse leaves the baby on the changing table,

unmonodored for up to a minute to throw a diaper away. I feel like I was a butthole in the way

that I spoke to them, however, I try talking nicely about it and nothing changes. I feel that I

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