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Welcome to R-slash. Am I the butthole where OPs secretly sells his house without telling his wife about it?

Am I the butthole for selling our house without informing my wife?

My wife and I had been married for many years. But before we got married, I had built up a substantial wealth.

When we got married, I opted for a pre-nuptial agreement and complete separation of assets.

She also has significant pre-marital wealth. Besides the house we currently live in, I still own a beautiful apartment in the same city that I usually rent out, but it's currently vacant.

Over the past two years, we've had many discussions about moving to a smaller town and getting a house near the beach.

Two months ago, we bought the house for our upcoming move. We've already made the renovations we wanted, bought furniture, and we'll be moving into a new house soon.

Since we won't be living in this city anymore, I didn't see a reason to keep the house we currently live in, and I sold it without notifying my wife.

Considering that it's solely my asset, I don't see the need to inform her in advance. Plus, selling and buying property is always a stressful process.

On the day I finalized the sale, I told her I'd sold the house, and she was furious with me for not letting her know.

She mentioned that she still needs a residence in the city and intends to come here frequently.

I explained to her that I still have the apartment, which we can use whenever we need to be in the city so there shouldn't be an issue.

She remains upset with me, claiming that I didn't treat her like a wife by not involving her in such an important decision.

On the other hand, I didn't exactly leave her without an address in the city, and the house was always exclusively my asset, just as she has her own wealth.

She argues that it's a completely different situation, because it's the house that we've been living in, and we're moving in the next few days.

Am I the butthole?

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