Welcome to our slash of my the butthole, where a mean girl bullies a cancer survivor.

Am I the butthole for silencing my girlfriend?

I'm a 28 year old woman, and I've been dating my girlfriend Nancy, who's 25 for about two months now.

We met on a blind date that our friends set up, and we've been seeing each other relatively

regularly since then. I'm not entirely sure if we're officially boyfriend and girlfriend,

but Nancy seems to think so. Nancy describes herself as a bit of a mean girl.

I honestly thought that she was just joking for a while, because typically she's quite nice.

However, she has an awful tendency to insult people based primarily on their appearance.

These insults can happen anywhere, anytime, and can be targeted at literally anyone.

Of course, she never says these things about the person right in front of her.

The other day, I invited Nancy to an event that we were having for a family friend.

It was my mother's friend, Sarah, who had just gotten out of the hospital for cancer.

Sarah's family and my family are very close. I've known them since I was born,

and I consider them to be extended family. Due to her cancer and chemotherapy,

Sarah no longer has hair, and she's very thin. Once Nancy saw Sarah, she started smirking.

I literally pleaded with Nancy not to say anything rude, and she agreed,

but told me that I was ruining her fun. Fast forward and I was chatting with my mother,

who's 55 and my sister who's 24. Nancy walks by and says hello.

She chats for a bit before starting to make several highly offensive jokes about Sarah and her

appearance. I won't repeat the jokes, but her jokes mainly pertain to baldness and anorexia.

My mother and sister looked mortified, and so was I. I literally had my jaw hanging open for

a good few seconds. Once I snapped out of it, I firmly told Nancy to stop, and that no one found

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