So New Year's is only two weeks away and a lot of people have been asking me Brian

what should I do what should my New Year's resolutions be you're the guy that

speaks with all these experts in your studio every week and what should I be thinking about and one of the first things that comes to mind is my good friend the Navy Seal, Mr. Jocko Willink, if you don't remember,

he ran Task Unit Bruiser in 2006 in Ramadi,

Iraq, and learned a lot of lessons.

And to his own admission and his own book

called Extreme Ownership, made a lot of of mistakes but he learned a lot about that.

And he has this concept called Extreme Ownership that I think we can all use in our life and

it really is simple.

It just means you take ownership for all the events in your life.

Let me repeat, that means you take ownership for all the events in your life and that includes the stuff

which you could throw your hands up and say, oh it's not my fault.

Like my boss is a jerk.

No, you own that.

My kids, they misbehave all the time.

No, you own that.

My wife or my husband.

Ah, they're a slob, they don't get anything done, a lot, no you own that, and you find a way

where you can change that situation. And that does two things really. First of all, it empowers

you. All of a sudden you have a say in your own future what a concept and

second of all it shows you that you can actually use your own behavior to affect

others and you can work so hard to make that boss actually love you and

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