Quick Fix: The Let Them Theory
How To! with Mike Pesca
Peach Fish Projects
4.3 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 15 July 2025
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
In this Quick Fix bonus episode, our conversation about how to get revenge continues. Writer and comedian Matthew Dicks weighs in on the "let them" mindset popularized by podcaster Mel Robbins. "I don't understand why we would let terrible people continue to be terrible," he says. And, Matt explains the tiny moment of social-media comeuppance he delivered to Donald Trump.
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Mel Robbins explains the idea that became her bestselling book The Let Them Theory.
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How To!'s Quick Fix is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer. Special thanks to Sophie Summergrad.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everyone, I'm Susie Weiss, and I've noticed there's just simply not enough podcasts in the world. So I'm launching my own. Let's go. Let's go, baby. Second Thought is a weekly show about pop culture. The stuff everyone's been binging, arguing about, obsessing over. Here's the thing about heated rivalry. I mean, even the most devoted swifties, I think we can agree, not our best work. We'll be hosting thoughtful conversations with culture's most important figures. Talk about genius. |
| 0:22.6 | Talk about generational talent. |
| 0:23.7 | Coming to headphones near you on April 17th with a first guest you won't want to miss. Available wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Quick Fix. I'm Courtney Martin. In today's bonus episode for Slate Plus members, |
| 0:39.4 | more from our conversation about how to get revenge with our guest Matthew Dix. |
| 0:45.2 | Matt is an elementary school teacher, storytelling coach, writer, and stand-up comedian who has another job, |
| 0:51.3 | unofficial, unpaid, as an expert on getting even. |
| 0:56.1 | Ahead, you'll hear about his tangle with Donald Trump, and we'll get his take on the |
| 1:01.1 | let them theory popularized by podcaster Mel Robbins. But first, the joy he finds in helping |
| 1:07.7 | others get their comeuppance might have something to do with where Matt grew up |
| 1:12.1 | and where one member of the how-to team grew up. We do have a producer, Sophie, who's also from |
| 1:20.4 | Massachusetts, as you are, and she wants us to ask, does being from Massachusetts predispose you to being good at revenge? |
| 1:30.4 | I think it predisposes you to feel the need for revenge, honestly. |
| 1:36.3 | Yeah, I live in Connecticut now. |
| 1:38.4 | Has Connecticut turned down the knob on your revenge lust? |
| 1:42.7 | No, it's made me aware of how different I am from the people around me. |
| 1:46.8 | Ah. Yeah. I do think that there's something about Massachusetts and a certain part of Massachusetts. |
| 1:52.2 | So if you lived in Western Massachusetts, you might as well live in Oregon. But if you live, |
| 1:57.6 | let's say, to the right of Worcester, you probably grew up with a certain degree of |
| 2:03.9 | angst and anger and annoyance and frustration that just sort of comes with the territory. |
| 2:10.9 | And so, yeah, I think there are places, you know, let's say the greater Boston area, I think |
| 2:15.4 | produces more revenge. |
| 2:16.7 | I think it's honestly why we have our country today. |
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