How To Be an Ethical Hater
How To! with Mike Pesca
Peach Fish Projects
4.3 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 July 2025
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
Our series on embracing your inner antihero continues with a look at superheroes who definitely don't wear capes: ethical haters. Slate culture writer Scaachi Koul sits down with How To!'s Carvell Wallace for a conversation about the power of haterade—and why "hating up" distinguishes ethical haters from run-of-the-mill, establishment negativity.
Links Mentioned:
Sucker Punch by Scaachi Koul
Scaachi's Substack, Hater Nation
Banal Nightmare by Halle Butler
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The show is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis. This episode was produced by Sophie Summergrad. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everyone, I'm Susie Weiss, and I've noticed there's just simply not enough podcasts in the world. So I'm launching my own. Let's go. Let's go, baby. Second Thought is a weekly show about pop culture. The stuff everyone's been binging, arguing about, obsessing over. Here's the thing about heated rivalry. I mean, even the most devoted swifties, I think we can agree, not our best work. We'll be hosting thoughtful conversations with culture's most important figures. Talk about genius. |
| 0:22.6 | Talk about generational talent. |
| 0:23.7 | Coming to headphones near you on April 17th with a first guest you won't want to miss. Available wherever you get your podcasts. I'm okay with disliking stuff and somebody else disagreeing with me and I can still sit in a room with you. As long as the thing we're not disliking is, like, someone's humanity. |
| 0:39.1 | Welcome to how to. |
| 0:40.4 | I'm Carver Wallace. |
| 0:41.9 | You know, every once in a while, I find myself thinking about the time Michelle Obama delivered the line. |
| 0:47.4 | When they go low, we go high to thunderous applause at the 2016 Democratic Convention. |
| 0:53.9 | I think it sticks in my mind now because nearly 10 years later, it looks like such spectacularly bad advice |
| 1:01.0 | for the moment the nation was about to face. |
| 1:03.0 | Like, yes, it was simple and quotable, and as a writer, I appreciated the play on words, |
| 1:09.0 | but I think at the very least least we can say it lacked some of |
| 1:12.4 | the nuance necessary to lead people into battle against encroaching fascism. The reality is that |
| 1:19.5 | fighting back requires all kinds of tactics beyond quote unquote going high. Specifically fighting |
| 1:26.2 | back also requires some very strategic and effective going low. |
| 1:30.9 | And that's what we're here to talk about. Going low. Particularly one small but important form of going |
| 1:37.0 | low, and that is criticizing, belittling, roasting, calling bullshit upon. In other words, being a hater. But I don't mean just |
| 1:47.6 | any old hater. I don't mean someone who goes around talking shit indiscriminately and making |
| 1:51.9 | everyone who they encounter feel bad. No, I mean a very specific kind of hating. Hating for good, |
| 1:59.0 | hating for the betterment of humankind. Today, we're here to talk about ethical hating. Hating for good. Hating for the betterment of humankind. Today, we're here to talk about |
| 2:03.4 | ethical hating. And for that, I have found what I believe to be the perfect guest. I'm Sachi |
| 2:12.3 | Cole and I am a culture writer at slate.com. Sachi Cole also writes the substack, |
| 2:18.3 | Hater Nation, which she calls a newsletter for assholes in Reform. |
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