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How To! with Mike Pesca

Quick Fix: Siblings Get the Freshman Blues, Too

How To! with Mike Pesca

Peach Fish Projects

Education, How To

4.32K Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2025

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

Our conversation about families and college life continues in this special bonus episode for Slate Plus members. Carvell Wallace talks with our listener Jennifer and Texas Tech administrator Christine Self about how to help younger siblings when an older brother or sister heads off to school.

Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen.

The show is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer.

This episode is member-exclusive. Listen to it now by subscribing to Slate Plus. By joining, not only will you unlock this episode—you'll also access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. Visit slate.com/howtoplus to get access wherever you listen.

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0:00.0

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0:22.6

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0:23.7

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0:24.8

on April 17th with a first guest you won't want to miss. Available wherever you get your podcasts.

0:32.9

Welcome to Quick Fix, a special how-to bonus episode for Slate Plus members.

0:38.0

I'm Carvel Wallace.

0:39.5

We're continuing our conversation about how to send your kid off to college with our guest, Christine Self.

0:45.3

She's the director of parent and family relations at Texas Tech University,

0:49.3

and we paired her up with Jennifer, who was sending her daughter Maddie off to the University of Kansas in a couple of months.

0:55.9

Like many students who leave home to go off to school, Maddie is leaving some folks behind.

1:01.2

And in a moment, we'll hear about a significant other situation.

1:04.9

But first, what about Jennifer's other daughter?

1:08.7

Maddie has a younger sister who's a sophomore and her name's Emily and these two

1:13.0

girls are very close. So that is also something that we're going to navigate is how do we adapt to

1:18.8

life without Maddie in the house? Yeah. And how does Emily adapt to life without Maddie in the house?

1:24.9

Exactly. I asked Christine's self how parents can help siblings

1:29.2

through this transition and whether Texas Tech does anything special for situations like this one.

1:34.4

So we actually do have a sibling weekend every spring. We don't do one in the fall because we have a

1:40.3

family weekend in the fall. We try to have those about six weeks into the semester

1:44.9

because that's typically about the time

1:47.3

that if there's going to be any homesickness,

1:49.5

it's kind of when it sets in.

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