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it means the world today we're covering the three questions that reveal if he's

truly religious this is a big one for women I know and if you clicked on this

video you're probably expecting me to tell you ask me if he prays five times a day

if he goes to Jima or maybe check his beard or does he carry him a sweat?

Like something that would like show about him.

But I'm not going to tell you any of that because here's what nobody is talking about.

A man can pray five times a day, go to Jima, memorize honestly half the Quran, and still not be a good husband for you.

I've seen it happen a lot over and over and over and the woman who comes to me in tears after two years of marriage, yeah, I hear all about

that. So most of them will tell you that their husbands are practicing, he prays, he fast, and he goes to

misjud, but he ignores their feelings, has anger issues, doesn't communicate well,

zero emotional intelligence, justifies things he does that feel contradictory to Islam.

So today I'm going to show you the three questions that will go deeper than the service

religiosity and the questions that will actually reveal his relationship with

Allah subhanna, not just his performance about it. And I need to warn you, these questions

are going to feel uncomfortable. They're going to feel too direct, too personal. You're going to

think, sister, I can't ask him that, but that discomfort, that's exactly why most women end up in miserable marriages

with what they thought were religious men now i'm mindful most of i've been doing this for 20

plus years not two years not five like other people i see kind of coming up over two decades

of helping women find and marry the right person. Now we've worked with

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