When a man says, what do you bring to the table, women, especially a certain type of woman, finds it disrespectful. She assumes negative intentions instead of trying to understand what is he asking. You're a single man. You got this platform. You got all these choices of women. You're the problem. Why aren't you married? Am I part of the problem? Absolutely. Rob, why you're part of the problem? Because I'm crazy. I'm picky.

I am special. There ain't nothing like me and I don't work normal. But the truth is, I think that marriage is a legal contract. And I'm looking for a business partner. As much as I'm looking for a beautiful woman, a sex partner, a friend, somebody who I can confide in. All those things are great.

At the end of the day, if we can't negotiate the terms of this deal,

I'm not signing the contract.

So what kind of deal that you want, Rob?

I want a good teammate. I want a good business partner, not just in theory, but in practice has the character that I believe is a good partner to what I think I bring to the marriage deal. Welcome to Dear Future Wifee podcast, my homie, Rob Howard, is in the building. What's happening? What's going on, bro? When I think about a marriage, I don't have a problem loving. I don't have a problem serving. I don't have a problem committing. All the things that a person might say on that side of the deal, like, hey, this is what I'm looking for. Cool. What are you willing to do? Because it sounds like you're committed to ring, wedding, title, my job. Yep. A good charlatan will try to enter into a deal without any scope of work or responsibility. Absolutely. Have you ever been close to marriage? Man, so close. I thought I was going to be the first homie in the group to get married. Now I'm the last homie. On the day homies. Did you try to fight for? No, I don't't want to fight for nothing. I'm not trying to fight with. I'm not trying to fight towards all of these terms, brother. Okay, let's talk about anything that you respect in your life and value. Do you be fighting for your health? Do you be fighting for your salvation? No. Do you give up too soon? Yeah. I see it coming. There's signs. You don't get mad if God whispering here, hey, it's over.

I'm gonna be like, what? too soon. Yeah. I see it coming. There's signs. You don't get mad if God whispering

in your, hey, it's over. I don't be like, what? No, all knowing God. If you met the person

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