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This just came in to the inbox at Feedback Sexi Marriage Radio.

com, Pamela. I just listened to the free version of episode 454 where a guest commented on scheduling sex.

My husband and I started scheduling sex because he wanted it four times a week and I never wanted it.

He insisted physical intimacy as part of a healthy marriage and I saw

that we related better when we had sex. On the scheduled days I was able to psych myself up for

it throughout the day so it wasn't bitter every time. But it was still duty sex on my part for eight years.

But because I had to deal with it three times a week, I got to the point of wanting to make it better because I wept at the prospect of having to continue

to have sex for the rest of my life like this. A lot of factors were involved, but now my husband

is not looking for his validation through sex. He now knows the clitoris needs to be

stimulated and I began to stand up for what I want in all areas of the marriage. Now our

scheduled sex provides anticipation for him and me setting my daily schedule to mentally

get in the mood to be ready to enjoy time with him after our four young kids are in bed.

I became aware of your podcast after hearing you on authentic intimacy.

The combination of the theology and purpose of sex from authentic intimacy, and your practical

tips and ideas have greatly helped our marriage.

A huge thank you to you both. and

I've greatly helped our marriage. A huge thank you to you both. Nice, nice, that's someone kind of coming into their own and really working hard to seek out and be better.

And that's what we want to have happen here at sexy marriage radio nation.

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