Q&A! Your Dad Kills Squirrels & Therapy Policing - Ep 387

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.9 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 22 May 2025

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you always beat your man at the board games he introduced you to, how can you mend his love of them? If your friend loses the key to your building that you gave her as a favor, does that deserve punishment? Is it OK to "therapy police" your husband? And if you find out your dad has been killing squirrels in his spare time, what should you do?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:55 - Q1: Beating My BF At Board Games Has Made Him Lose Interest In His Hobby—Help!

13:04 - Q2: Should I Ignore My Friend’s Birthday Because They Ignored Mine?

21:16 - Q3: My Friend Lost The Key To My Building That I Gave Her As A Favor—Shandy, What Would You Do?

27:09 - Q4: My Husband And I Always Fight About This—Am I In The Wrong?

36:44 - Q5: My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help!

48:05 - Q6: Am I Wrong For “Therapy-Policing” My Husband?

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Transcript

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0:00.0	This is a very sad episode of Dear Shandy. I'm very upset now. Okay. I came into this upset now. I'm more upset.
0:08.7	Dear Shandy.
0:12.9	Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. Hello, Andy. How are you today?
0:17.0	Oh, okay. Andy's not feeling great.
0:20.0	Yeah, definitely great. Can't put my finger on it. Everything's a little, eh.
0:23.2	You know, I've got to say, you're so in touch with your body, and that's a good thing a lot of the time. But there are sometimes where I think it's a problem. Really? Yeah, you're like, I have this, like, I feel physically just not great. And I'm like, what's the thing? Is it a headache?
0:37.7	Are you sore?
0:55.4	What's the thing? And you're like, I just don't know. Yeah, it's hard to put my finger on it. Maybe I'm not in touch with my feelings enough. And the feelings I'm feeling are actually emotional feelings that are manifesting as physical. Oh, my God. Okay. Well, it's Q&A day. That's a great attitude to bring into today, Andy.
0:57.5	I'm actually having a hard time too.
0:55.4	Oh, really? Okay, well, it's Q&A day. That's a great attitude to bring into today, Andy.
0:57.5	I'm actually having a hard time, too.
0:57.9	Oh, really?
1:00.9	Because as of yesterday, I'm trying to cut back on sugar.
1:01.1	Oh.
1:08.4	And it is like, I can't really place what feels so not great.
1:14.3	I guess it goes beyond just like a craving that goes unsatisfied. It's like I feel well you're addicted. I'm addicted. Your body is pissed at you. Your body's like where's our sugar?
1:19.7	Yeah. It's it's punishing you. Yeah, I'm trying to show it who's boss right now, but I'm really
1:26.2	having a hard time. I had some peanut butter, just straight peanut butter before we got rolling.
1:30.6	It's not going to cut it.
1:31.7	Yeah, it didn't. But, I mean, it gave me something. That was the best thing so far. Yeah. You're going to make it. I'm going to be there to support you through this. I am starting this inspired by my new friend, Karen, who we followed each other on Instagram,
1:46.6	and then we became friends, which was really cool.
1:49.3	She was in the city.
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