This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real-life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen.

Welcome to episode 61 of the Authentic Sex Podcast.

My name is Juliet Allen.

I'm the creator and host of the podcast.

I'm a sexologist and a sex and relationship coach.

And this episode is a Q&A with me.

So as you can imagine, I get a lot of emails from people asking me questions

about sex. And so every now and then on the podcast, I do an episode that answers a few of the questions.

And I pick out questions that I feel will be appropriate for lots of people and I pick out questions

that are quite common too. So I'm going to get straight into it today but first off this

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Julietjul-I-E-T-Hifen allen.com. So straight into it. The first question that I have today is do you have any tips or ideas

for how to pull a relationship back from being someone's parent slash therapist?

Basically this person is asking if what the dynamic is that she feels like she's in more of a

therapist role with her partner rather than lovers.

Now, this is really common.

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