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🗓️ 24 July 2025
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Can you say "no" to attending your friend's destination wedding? Is it appropriate to give your 60-year old mother dating advice? What should you say when your friend wants to set up her friend with YOUR ex husband? And what to do when threesomes with your husband have left you wanting more?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:43 - Q1: Can I Say “No” To My Close Friend’s Destination Wedding?
8:55 - Q2: Does My 60-Year Old Mother Need My Dating Advice?
20:05 - Q3: Threesomes With My Husband Have Left Me With More Questions Than Answers—Help!
40:43 - Q4: My Friend Says Wants To Set My Ex-Husband Up With Her Other Friend—Help!
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| 0:00.0 | I think a talk needs to be had. |
| 0:02.0 | There needs to be more communication, not just when you're having sacked him talking |
| 0:05.8 | about some guy railing you. |
| 0:11.1 | Dear Shandy. |
| 0:15.3 | Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. |
| 0:17.3 | Hello, Andy. |
| 0:18.1 | Hello. |
| 0:18.7 | How are you today? |
| 0:19.7 | I'm good. |
| 0:20.4 | You're good? I am. I confess I am tired. |
| 0:23.3 | Yeah, you've been talking about being tired more than usual. How is that for conversation around the house? |
| 0:28.9 | Good, good chats with that about being tired. You know, what I have been over the last week and a half is extremely social. |
| 0:35.9 | Yes. More social than I think I ever have been. You really have let it loose. And you're an introvert. Yes. And introverts are drained by such intense social interaction. Yes. And he's acting like he knew this, but I told him before we got wrong. Oh, you've told me many times. Okay. So now it's my knowledge. But so when you being the extrovert, when you're social, you feel recharged by it? Yeah, there's a limit, though. I actually have gotten almost to the end of my rope. I actually think you are an introverted extrovert. Yes. Mm-hmm. But not an extroverted introvert. You're an introverted extrovert. |
| 1:34.0 | Yes, I agree with you. It reminds me of, okay, I have a Zelda reference for the diehards out there. Okay, but in Zelda, you have this, the stamina wheel, which you can build up with strength, you know, you can like do all these tasks to build up your stamina wheel. But if you, for example, climb endlessly or run endlessly without pausing to like rest, then you move slow for a while. Yeah. Like you used up your stamina. Right now I'm moving |
| 1:39.4 | slow. Like I feel slow. I went out last night with some friends and they were all... |
| 1:43.2 | Was it really necessary to use a Zelda reference to say that if you keep running, |
| 1:46.3 | you eventually slow down? |
| 1:47.5 | No, you guys will know what I'm talking about. It's like you do all the things and then you're like, even if you wanted to run, you're like this. Right. Like in real life. Yes. Like in real life. But last night I went out for a friend's birthday, |
| 2:00.3 | and she's super smart and funny. |
| 2:03.2 | And all her friends were super smart and funny. And I just was sitting at the table and I was like, I'm slow right now. Like I couldn't keep up. Yeah. Like there were sentences were being said. And I was like, too quick. They were too quick. Normally I'm a little quicker, but I was just like. I totally get it. I go out sometimes with a group of friends where it's like just too quick sometimes. Yeah. And I feel like even though I feel like it was fun, I feel like I just did like an Olympic event. Yes. I feel exhausted. That's sort of how I feel right now. But nothing brings us life like a Q&A. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. We've always got energy. There's unlimited stamina for Q&A. I have to admit, Q&A's give me life. They really do. It's such a symbiotic relationship because our shandies are like a lot of them say that Q&A's are their favorites. And there are favorites too. Yes. And callers. And callers. Shall we get going, Andy? Yeah, let's do it. Let's do it. |
| 2:52.2 | All right. This first question is from Anonymous. Dear Shandy. Actually, she didn't write |
| 2:57.6 | Dear Shandy. She just said, hi. First of all, thank you in advance for reading. I've never done |
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