She sounds like a really cool robot. A really cool robot. Yeah, a robot that has really studied human.

It's like totally. It's like it's like a romantic terminator.

Dear Shandhi. Welcome back to Dear Shandhi listeners. Hi Andy. Hi. We're in the living room.

Here we are again. And we are answering your questions today. And there are several good ones.

Shall we get started? Shall we? This first question is from Sam.

Dear Shandhi. I started seeing someone I met from Hinge. He was 24. I am 27. For context,

I live in New York City. The age difference was too big in terms of maturity level. And we fought

and moved on. I love how concise that is. We fought and moved on. You'll fight and move on.

Yes. I think we were really compatible in all aspects other than age, family background,

where we are from, religion, general lifestyle and personality, interests, great sex,

physical attraction, overall connection from the start in a rare way. He never had a real

girlfriend he communicated with before and that was the major issue. Is it wrong for me to not

keep in touch then circle back in a few years if I'm still single to see if he's matured

from actually having a few years under his belt and potentially a real relationship?

Did she mention I'm old? He's 24 and she's 27. I think it's perfectly reasonable.

I agree. It sounds like, I mean, she lists, it's like a laundry list of great things about this

guy. It sounds like I'm not sure what they were fighting about or... Yeah, the maturity level

for me, I guess it's hard for me to relate because when I've dated guys that I found not mature enough,

like that unto itself was such a turn off that even if they were more mature, like that ship

it sailed, do you know what I mean? It's a permanent stand. Yeah, but I mean if you think there was

something there and it's mutual... Yeah. Which I'm not sure I'm getting... it's hard to tell from

this one paragraph, but why not? Yeah, I would definitely keep the hooks in a little bit and then

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