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Dear Shandy

Q&A! Returning The Ring, My BF Misses His Ex's Family, And DWI = Dealbreaker?

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.94K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2022

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there *ever* a case to be made for keeping the engagement ring after the relationship ends? Is a DWI an absolute dealbreaker, or should one focus instead on the honesty in revealing it? And is it cause for concern if your new boyfriend reveals he misses his ex's family? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


0:00 - Q1: After A Broken Engagement, Should The Woman *Always* Return The Ring, Regardless Of Circumstance?

6:40 - Q2: Is A Recent DWI A Dealbreaker?

18:01 - Q3: Should I Still Make The Guy Chase If The First "Date" Was Virtual?

39:10 - Q4: I've Been With My Partner For 11 Years But Still Wonder About Our Mutual Friend With Whom I've Had An Emotional Affair

56:42 - Q5: My New Boyfriend Is 6 Months Out Of A 6-Year Relationship And Has Expressed Missing Parts Of That Life—Should I Be Concerned?


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Transcript

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0:00.0

You know who I tell people I'm a bad texture too?

0:02.0

People I don't plan on texture.

0:03.4

Ha ha ha ha ha ha.

0:05.0

No, I'm terrible texture.

0:06.4

Don't, don't text.

0:07.6

Can't, can't do it.

0:08.6

["Dear Shandy"]

0:10.8

Dear Shandy.

0:14.0

Welcome back to Dear Shandy, listeners.

0:16.6

Hello, Andy.

0:17.7

Oh, hi.

0:18.8

Hello there.

0:21.0

Did I catch you off guard?

0:22.2

Yeah, what are you up to?

0:23.7

We, what I'm up to right now is a Q&A.

0:26.4

I love how I show this, like this somehow

0:28.0

indicates Q&A.

0:29.0

That's super Q&A.

0:30.4

Do you feel ready to get to people's questions, Andy?

0:32.3

I do.

0:32.9

I do.

0:33.1

I do feel ready.

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