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Dear Shandy

Q&A! Relationship Disillusionment

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.94K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2021

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 How normal are growing pains when you and your partner first live together, and is it too harsh to deem your partner's living habits unattractive? If you think you're falling for your soon-to-be-roommate—who also happens to be 6 years younger than you—should you explore this or let it go? If you're "cloaked" by someone on a dating app, even after making plans, should you call out their rude behavior?

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You either find something unattractive for you, don't you?

0:02.0

Yeah.

0:03.0

Then you should question everything that you feel about everything.

0:05.0

Maybe you don't like pizza, maybe it's all in illusion.

0:08.0

Dear Shandee.

0:12.0

Welcome back to Dear Shandee listeners.

0:16.0

Hello, Andy.

0:18.0

Hello. How are you?

0:20.0

I'm good.

0:21.0

Good to hear you.

0:22.0

We're answering questions today as evidenced by our setting.

0:26.0

Mm-hmm.

0:27.0

Shall we get right to it?

0:29.0

I think that's the right thing to do.

0:31.0

This first question is from Devon.

0:35.0

Dear Shandee.

0:37.0

First a little context.

0:39.0

I have been dating a guy since January 2020, so just a little over a year.

0:43.0

I'm 26 and he is 29.

0:46.0

He is a military officer and was deployed six months of that time overseas.

0:50.0

He's also set to receive new orders this summer,

0:53.0

which will likely take him to a new state where I would move with him.

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