Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!
Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
4.9 • 4K Ratings
🗓️ 29 October 2020
⏱️ 79 minutes
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Summary
It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it sketchy if your boyfriend follows his ex's erotic accounts, and how much does it matter whether or not he tells you about it? Do longterm friends-with-benefits relationships ever lead to actual relationships, and what should you do if you find yourself developing real feelings? And how important is sexual exploration before settling down? Your questions are getting REAL and we're here for it! 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♂️ Watch on for the Shandy take...
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| 0:00.0 | Are we not an entertainment right now? Are we not entertaining? |
| 0:03.2 | Are you not, Edges? |
| 0:06.0 | And... |
| 0:07.0 | Dear Shandee! |
| 0:12.0 | Welcome back to Dear Shandee listeners and viewers at Werner Living Room area today. |
| 0:19.0 | That means it's Q and... |
| 0:22.0 | Hey! We're answering your questions today. |
| 0:26.0 | Thank you to all who submitted questions. |
| 0:29.0 | They're just getting so good. They're getting really good and I'm excited because they are going to the depths that I was hoping we would go. |
| 0:38.0 | Specificity. |
| 0:39.0 | Our first question is from Mariella. |
| 0:43.0 | My boyfriend, 29 and I, 26 have been dating long distance for a little over a year. |
| 0:50.0 | We met through mutual friends, he's in New York City and I'm in Chicago. |
| 0:56.0 | Recently I found out that one of his exes, she's now married but they were together for five years, has an only fans account and an erotic Instagram account where she promotes her only fans account. |
| 1:12.0 | He was following the Instagram account until I confronted him about it. |
| 1:16.0 | He apologized for not telling me. |
| 1:18.0 | Wait, can I use the front of the side? |
| 1:20.0 | I'm confused. |
| 1:22.0 | Is this girl is like a webcam porn person? |
| 1:27.0 | It's an erotic Instagram account, I don't think that automatically means porn. |
| 1:32.0 | I mean, it doesn't not mean porn. |
| 1:37.0 | Okay, so is it erotic but it's a fight to say she's probably some sort of an Instagram porn star in her own living room. |
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