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Dear Shandy

Q&A! Morality Check, What To Do When Your Friend Deserves Better, & A Travel Am-I-The-A-Hole Bonanza! - Ep 309

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.9 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 30 May 2024

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You met your boyfriend shortly after getting laid off—with a new job lined up, is it morally wrong to never tell him about the layoff? If you're single and sharing an Airbnb with couples and even some families, should you pay the same amount for a room in the rental, even if there's only one of you? If your friend unexpectedly invites her boyfriend on your planned girls trip, are you the a-hole if you pull out? And finally, what to do if you simply *dislike* your best friend's fiancé?? Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!



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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

0:53 - Q1: If I Have New Job, Is It Morally Wrong Not To Tell My Boyfriend I Got Laid Off From My Previous Job?

6:22 - Q2: I’m The Single Friend In A Large Trip Of Couples And Their Kids—Am I Being Unreasonable About This Airbnb Split?

14:21 - Q3: My Friend Added Her Boyfriend To Our Girls Trip—AITA For Wanting To Pull Out?

30:53 - Q4: My Boyfriend Bailed On Driving Me To My Hometown & I Had To Pay $$$ For A Flight Instead—AITA For Wanting Him To Help Cover The Cost?

46:07 - Q5: My Best Friend’s Fiancé Is Just “OK”—How Do I Get Over The Fact That She Deserves Better?



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Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm going to tell her something that is both going to hurt and going to feel good.

0:06.3

Okay.

0:06.8

And what I'm going to say is, yes, you are the asshole.

0:10.1

However, that's good to know.

0:16.7

Dear Shandy.

0:20.9

Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners.

0:23.1

Hello, Andy.

0:24.5

If you have a structured settlement and you need cash now.

0:28.2

You need cash now.

0:29.1

G. Wentworth 877 cash now.

0:35.7

I was showing off my COVID baritone.

0:38.2

Oh, yes.

0:39.2

We're both sick at the moment.

0:40.3

We both have COVID, believe it or not.

0:42.6

But we record from home.

0:44.6

And so there was no excuse.

0:45.5

We actually really needed to record.

0:47.0

And so we were like, well, we're going to do a sick Q&A.

0:49.9

Yeah.

0:50.3

And you know, some people would let COVID get in the way of a podcast.

0:53.5

Oh.

0:53.8

But that's not how we treat our shandies.

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