Q&A! Competition In Friendship, High-Strung Low-Strung & Is "Nice" Enough? - Ep 300

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.9 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2024

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How important is "niceness" in a partner, and is it enough? If you have a massive crush on someone out of town, how do you escalate from casual, sporadic dates to long-distance relationship? If you and your partner agree to boycott an establishment and he lies about having caved, is this a red flag? Finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question, board game edition! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

0:54 - Q1: Is “Nice” Enough?

7:06 - Q2: My BF Lied About Visiting An Establishment We Had Agreed To Boycott—Is This A Red Flag?

21:28 - Q3: I Have A Huge Crush On A Girl & Don’t Know How To Escalate Things—Help!

42:37 - Q4: The Transient Nature Of My Career Has Left Me Unmotivated To Date—Help!

53:08 - Q5: Am I The Asshole, Board Game Edition

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Transcript

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0:00.0	You know what? Nothing is free.
0:02.2	Nothing good.
0:04.1	Well, I mean, I don't, now I'm worried about things.
0:10.2	I think I'm saying crazy shit today.
0:13.7	Dear Shandy.
0:18.1	Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners.
0:20.2	Hello, Andy. How are you today? Doing okay. Yes. Doing okay. Because it's
0:24.4	Q&A day. It's Q&A day. Yes. Q&A day is now twice as frequent as it used to be. But I'm concerned
0:31.9	that we will run out of questions. That honestly, that was one of the biggest fears starting this
0:36.6	podcast. It has never come even close to happening. Shandy's we are touched. No, I don't mean run out of questions. That honestly, that was one of my biggest fears starting this podcast. It has never
0:37.7	come even close to happening. Shandis, we are touched. No, I don't mean run out of questions that they ask. I mean run out of actual new questions. Like, it's like, it's like you've written every song that's ever going to be written. It's over. Oh, but the thing is, you think you, you think every song has been written, but it hasn't. Right. That's true. Yeah. Just when you think every song has been
0:56.3	written, you get hasn't. Right. That's true. Yeah.
0:54.3	Just when you think every song has been written, you get pit bull.
0:59.9	And then you realize you were right.
1:01.7	Okay, shall we get going, answering our Shandy's cues?
1:05.5	Let's do it.
1:06.2	All right.
1:06.6	This first question is from L, as in the letter.
1:10.9	Dear Shandy, you two are a joy to watch, and I think the advice you give is very good.
1:15.8	Thank you, Elle.
1:17.0	Thanks for answering so many relationship questions.
1:19.5	Here's mine.
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