We're forced to put our relationship on hold.

Now she seems a bit more distant.

Verdict?

Well, if she's distant, because typically, like I did an email this morning, the girl wanted a break.

And typically what's happening is a lot of women will put their, when the feelings are gone,

because women care about how they feel about you, not how much of a good guy you are, how loyal you are, how much money you have. If their feelings are

gone, they're not feeling it. They're feeling like they want to be somewhere else and they want to be

with a man that stimulates their emotions, that they can totally let go and surrender to and submit to and trust him

because he's man enough to handle everything.

And when a guy doesn't do that, because that's what a lot of them have done, they come to me and

they start reading 3% man, and they recognize, like the one guy this morning, he referred

to himself, he says, I did like every needy, I over-pursued,

every beta-man begging, pleading, every beta male behavior you can think of. He did with his

girlfriend. And so a woman recognizes that, hey, you're a great guy, but bottom of mind,

she ain't feeling it. she's not feeling the chemistry

there's no spark she doesn't feel the same way as she used to she'll start saying she's confused

she needs some space and typically that's what happens is they want space and so you never try to keep

somebody doesn't want to keep you and so if somebody wants space and doesn't want to be around you, you give them space.

You give them an infinite amount of space.

And when somebody basically says, I would rather not spend time around you and talk to you

and I need space, you have to give them so much space that you're willing to never speak to

them again.

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