I told her I didn't like going to dinners with her exes.

She broke up with me saying that I'm controlling.

Well, I mean, if you don't like the exes, the ex-boyfriends, because a lot of cases, that kind of case, oftentimes, if the guys haven't complete, because what you'll see a lot of times is those exes aren't really

exes maybe they got dumped is typically what happens in those situations the exes got dumped to hers

but she likes the attention typically you're going to see a missing father in the household the missing

masculine presence that kind of thing and so you're going to tend to see that more and what what's happening is the exes probably you're still carrying the torch for her. So in that situation, it's like I wouldn't want to put up with that either. Or the other thing is if you don't like those people, you just say, I know it's your ex, but I don't really care for the dude and I don't want to hang out, you, me, and your ex, It's like if we're going to get together, I want to go on a date. If she breaks up with you and says, oh, you're insecure.

Well... don't want to hang out you, me, and your ex, it's like, if we're going to get together, I want to go on a date. And if she breaks up with you and says, oh, you're insecure. Well, 95% of relationships where one or both people threaten breakups or actually go through with breakups to try to change or modify the other person's behavior, they don't work out. Because eventually you get sick of it. And if your girlfriend dumped you because you told her you didn't want to hang out with, go out on dates with her and hang out with her ex-boyfriends, she didn't say anything about the ex-boyfriends and their new girlfriend or anything. It's just those, but it doesn't matter. If there's a couple that you don't like and your ex loves the two of them, It's like I was saying, yeah, they're not really my kind of people. And no, I don't want to hang out with them. And it's like she's buttered about that. I don't care. It's like, I'm just saying I don't, I want to hang out. I'm 53 years old. The only you get, the less you give a shit about what other people think about you. and at this point in my life I want to spend time with people good to me, good for me, good for my soul. And if they're not like that, I don't care how much she likes them. It's like, I know you love them. It's like, great. You guys go have a good time, but I'm not going to be there. And when you're done, you give me a call. We'll get together. We'll get together tomorrow. we'll get together over the weekend or whatever. i'm not going to spend my time with people that i don't like even if my girl likes him and if this girl

dumped you over that it's like there there was no intimacy there to begin with she's not afraid of losing

you i feel like she's um trying to make you comfortable with the fact of trying to see him.

She's probably seeing him secretly behind your back and trying to make you feel comfortable with him.

Oh, she's just with, you know.

Or he's trying to get back, but he's stuck in friend zone because he saw too many movies that said that's the way to get your ex back.

And she likes the attention.

And maybe she's been spending some time with him and

not really sure and so she's got all you guys together or women will do that women will invite

several guys that they're seeing to the same venue not all women but some women will do that crap

especially again where there's a missing father they'll do that and know, you get there and it's like, you got one guy, the Harry Honda guy, he's fixing her toilet. And he's hoping to get his, you know, she has a party and invites all you over there. And there's another guy from work. He's just a friend. And, you know, he rotated her tires last week and you can tell like

whenever she goes into a room all the beta male orbiters kind of hover with her and follow her around

and most of her friends happen to be guys and if you understand my book and you're familiar with it

then you're gonna be able to tell it's like those are not guy friends are beta male guy friends, beta male orbiters that are stuck in friend zone and are hoping to get their chance.

And if you're looking to have a loyal, monogamous relationship, somebody that values that kind of thing,

she's not going to invite you over and have a bunch of X's there or beta male orbiters or guys she dated for a couple weeks in friend zone that she's hanging out with all the time.

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