Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7 • 885 Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of Pain-Free Intimacy joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future.

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From the Bible

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4

I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. Psalm 139:14 (HCSB)

I remain confident of this:
I will see the goodness of the Lord
in the land of the living.
Psalm 27:13
(the verse J couldn't think of in the moment!)

"I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten—
  the great locust and the young locust,
  the other locusts and the locust swarm—
my great army that I sent among you.
You will have plenty to eat, until you are full,
  and you will praise the name of the Lord your God,
  who has worked wonders for you;
never again will my people be shamed."
Joel 2:25–26

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Resources

Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives

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Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth.
0:06.0	What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages?
0:10.0	I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.
0:12.0	I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.
0:15.0	And I'm Jay Parker of Hot, Holy, and Humorous.
0:18.0	Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.
0:22.6	Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian Wives.
0:24.9	Once again, Chris is absent from the podcast.
0:27.5	In case you're wondering, she's working out some health issues and we'll keep you posted
0:30.8	on that.
0:31.4	But Bonnie and I are here today and we have a wonderful guest joining us.
0:34.7	Just Sites is an occupational therapist who specializes in pelvic
0:37.7	health and vaginismus recovery. She also runs a website and social media channels under
0:42.8	pain-free intimacy, and she's here to talk to us about how to address pain that wives currently
0:47.9	have or may have in the future. Welcome, Jess. Yeah, thank you guys so much for having me. What a joy.
0:53.8	We're glad you're here.
0:54.8	Yeah, so before we get into our conversation, could you tell us a little bit about yourself and how you
0:59.0	came to work in the area of sexual pain? Right. So like you said, I'm an occupational therapist.
1:05.0	My background is in chronic pain science. And I remember going through school and my own journey
1:10.7	and thinking, I will never be a
1:12.6	public health therapist. And here I am. But part of that is because, you know, when I got married,
1:17.6	I found out that sex was not how I thought it was going to be. I could have guessed because I
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