The virtue so she was wondering what she was going to do about it over the weekend because she had a secret

On the guy that she's dating right now, but she didn't know if it was appropriate to tell him like hey

This is what I know about your family or not so should I tell him or just should I just kind of hang with this secret

So what did she do over the weekend? Yeah, so about 15 years ago

She was told a secret from her boyhood now boyfriend's sister

But this is obviously before her and her boyfriend were together

They were really young and they were best friends and they told each other everything one of the things that the sister told her was that the father of

The hard now boyfriend is not his actual father and he doesn't know that the father doesn't know that

I don't believe anybody in the family knows that and show now that she started to date this guy

She's wondering if she should bring this secret up all those years later or if she should just kind of go on like it

Inhappened and we pretty much told her now would definitely not be the time

But if anything, maybe she should talk to the sister first let the sister know that they're dating since they used to be really good friends

And then maybe her reaction will kind of tell you where to go with the secret from there

I haven't read this yet

But my gut is telling me that if she's so stressed out about this already

And she's already looking to a future with this guy that she was going into the weekend thinking I

Can't keep this to myself. I got to tell this guy what I know

But that's selfish because you're doing that to relieve the burden that's on you instead of thinking of how that's gonna affect him

Has gonna affect his family and that is information that doesn't come from a girl you've been dating for a couple months

Yeah, like that comes from a family member. It doesn't come from you and you knew this going into dating him

So you set yourself up. This is like a post. I love you conversation like when the relationship gets that

Serious yes, then you could worry about it

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