the virtue. So you know what? It might just be ultimatum time because this whole story

doesn't even add up that he's hot. This dude must be hiding something and she is determined

this weekend to find out what's going on. Yeah, so they've been doing this long distance

thing. So it's been several months and when she goes into his place or goes into his city

and she's typically there for work, she stays at a hotel because work pays for it. He always

comes to the hotel and they hook up there. However, he has traveled to her city and when he

traveled to her city, he stayed at her place. She had him stay there. But for some reason,

whenever she goes to his city, he never has her come over. He's, she's never seen his place

and she feels like this is a red flag like something's off here. Like it's, it's shady that he hasn't

invited me over. I haven't seen this place. He's never offered to have me stay here. So she was

concocting this plan and she was going to be basically like, hey, I'm coming back into town.

However, all the hotels in the vicinity are booked. I'm going to have to book something

so far away. Work is booking something so far away that I don't know if I'm going to be able to see you

unless you let me stay with you. And so she was going to put him on the spot and see how he

responded. So we can get more clarification and figure out, is he or is he not being shady?

Now the default here, like we said yesterday is like, oh man, he's probably got a family or

I think it's something embarrassing. Like he's just trying to hide something embarrassing

in his life. Maybe it's like a studio apartment and she thinks that he's got more cash than he does

or maybe he's in his 30s. It has six room. Something is embarrassing him. I don't know that he's

got enough family. I guess she's going to find out this weekend. All right, Mo, you've got the

email update here. Thanks for the advice. So here's what I did. I called him. I told him that my

last minute trip had changed. I said I would be coming in to town this weekend. I asked if I

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