The virtue you guys remember this on Friday she emailed us and said that her husband

Wanted her to convince his mom that the woman his brother is dating is the one for him

But she had never met him. Yeah, she had never met her brother's girlfriend who he is contemplating proposing to and

moms for some reason

cannot stand her doesn't like her and

she

She feels like she has a good relationship with the mom and the family knows this and her husband knows this so they've tasked her

With meeting with the brother's girlfriend, which she was supposed to do this past weekend and then

Telling the mother-in-law. Oh, she's wonderful. She's great. She's awesome

Like you really need to like her right however we told her that's probably not how the conversation should go and

I think Bertie were right like before you promise anything like actually meet her talk to her. Yeah, see if there's maybe you're you know

Go with your gut and see how you feel about her and then if you do like her and you think the mom has no reason to be holding this

Grudge against her then go meet with mom

But don't like tell her you need to like her just be like oh my god

I had lunch with Suzy and she's such a lovely person like don't agree to it going in actually say no

I can't do that and then spend the week in with her and if things go well then

It's plus then you can say yeah, you know what I will do this because I think she's really cool

So what happened over the weekend yo, Bertu

Thank you so much for getting back to me so quickly. I really didn't think that you'd be able to get my situation

Discuss so fast so I appreciate the fast advice. I decided to go ahead and get to know her without

Promising anything about talking to my mother-in-law

It would have been great to be able to get to know her better without my husband or his brother knowing

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