Here, virtue.

All right, an update here because at least he was honest with her and said, I just want

to let you know you're always going to ride the bench.

Mom's always the starter and you're always going to be number two on the depth chart.

At least he was honest.

So she was going to sit him down and go, let's talk about your depth chart for just one

second.

Um, so she's, she's engaged to be married and she and her fiance were supposed to have

dinner, but he called and canceled on to the last minute because his mom needed him.

And we're like, oh, it's an emergency.

No, she just didn't want to have dinner alone.

And I'm like, oh, is she widowed?

Is something like, no, her husband was just out of town on business or was something

and like he just, and it sparked this conversation between the two of them to which he said,

verbatim, my mom is always going to be my number one.

She's going to be my priority.

Um, and so that obviously upset her and she's not cool with that.

So she hit us up and wanted to know a, all right.

So am I the one that's in the wrong here or in, we all had her back and we're like, as

the spouse, you, the both of you make each other a priority.

It doesn't mean that you, you're lessening your other family.

It just means that it's going to be a long, hard road of marriage if you don't make

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