Psycho-Mother RUINS MY WEDDING PLANS... so I UNINVITED HER

Am I the Jerk?

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🗓️ 13 December 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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0:00.0	My entitled narcissistic mother is ruining my wedding before it even takes place, as she is once
0:05.7	again making everything about her, while also turning my entire family against me if I don't bend to
0:11.0	her will. And now I feel like I'm at my breaking point, because right now I seriously don't know
0:15.8	what to do. Here's what happened. Okay, so there is so much to this, and I really hope that this
0:20.3	very condensed
0:21.0	version makes even a little bit of sense to somebody. My longtime fiancé and I have finally decided
0:26.0	to make the step and get married. This has been in the works for all of three weeks, and it's
0:30.8	already been an absolute nightmare due to my family. Long story short, my parents have been
0:35.5	divorced for over 10 years, and it has been ugly
0:38.3	ever since the beginning. For added context, very critical actions on my mom's part are what
0:43.5	inevitably led to the divorce. And since then, the relationship between her and her older,
0:48.2	now adult children has been extremely strained due to her actions and behavior. So I'll let
0:53.3	that speak for itself.
0:54.6	Now, due to the cost, our best option for a venue is my dad's house as a backyard event.
0:59.7	While trying to put some feelers out to my mom's side of the family about the wedding,
1:03.4	several family members made no effort to dance around their decision to straight up not attend
1:08.1	if it was held at his house.
1:09.8	Now, trying to make this work for everyone,
1:11.8	we were able to find a different relative's home to act as a reception venue, and this seemed to get
1:16.4	everyone on the same page of being willing to attend. But unfortunately, this is where the messiest part
1:21.5	begins. My mom and I have not been on speaking terms for over a year. This stemmed from a situation
1:26.7	like many others others that she herself
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