PSP 223: How to Not Compare Your Child to Other Kids
AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety
Natasha Daniels: Child Therapist, Child Anxiety and OCD Expert, Parenting Coach and Parent
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🗓️ 17 August 2021
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
The comparing game can be so tempting.
Why can her kids do that and mine can’t?
Why is it so easy for them and everything is so difficult for us?
Why do we have to go through this?
I wish my child was like that.
Trust me I get it, I live it. But in this episode of the AT Parenting Survival Podcast I talk about how to get out of that mindset or at least not live in it permanently.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the AT Parenting Survival Podcast, where you get help and guidance through |
| 0:08.1 | the chaos of parenting a child with anxiety or OCD. |
| 0:12.1 | This show is for educational purposes and is not intended to replace the guidance of |
| 0:16.5 | a qualified professional. |
| 0:18.0 | Here's your host, Child Therapist Natasha Daniels. |
| 0:22.1 | Well, hello there, and welcome to another episode of the AT Parenting Survival Podcast. |
| 0:29.2 | Today I want to talk to you about a topic that was brought up by one of my members of |
| 0:34.1 | the AT Parenting Community. |
| 0:35.3 | She actually is bringing up a lot of good topics, and I'm picking a lot of her topics to do |
| 0:39.7 | on my podcast. |
| 0:40.7 | I appreciate her, and she wanted me to talk about how to not compare our kids to other |
| 0:47.3 | kids. |
| 0:48.3 | Do you do that? |
| 0:49.3 | I know. |
| 0:50.3 | I have really struggled with that, especially in the earlier days. |
| 0:54.3 | And I thought it was a good topic because I love topics that I feel like can resonate with |
| 0:58.4 | so many of us. |
| 0:59.4 | The more broad general topics, the better, because on some level, most of us raising kids |
| 1:04.8 | with anxiety or OCD had those moments, or are still having those moments where we're |
| 1:08.6 | like, man, why can't you be like Tommy or my sister's kid or my best friend's kid, right? |
| 1:16.4 | And even if we don't say that out loud, which a lot of us probably don't, we're saying |
| 1:20.2 | it to ourselves in our head. |
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