PSP 012: 5 Things Good Parents Do That Actually Hurts Self-Esteem

AT Parenting Survival | Raising Kids with OCD & Anxiety

Natasha Daniels: Child Therapist, Child Anxiety and OCD Expert, Parenting Coach and Parent

Anxiety, Ocd Therapy, Child Anxiety, Child Ocd, Kids & Family, Ocd, Health & Fitness, Ocd In Children, Parenting, Mental Health

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🗓️ 17 April 2017

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary: In this episode I talk about the 5 things that we all do that can actually hurt children's self-esteem. In this episode you will learn: How fostering independence improves self confidence and self-esteem. How sometimes letting your kids fall and not rescuing them is the best thing you can do. How to use praise to improve self-esteem. How to use structural criticism without crushing self-esteem. ***This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be used to replace the guidance of a qualified professional.Visit my website at www.ATparentingSurvival.comInterested in my AT Parenting Community Membership? Click below to join us!http://www.atparentingcommunity.comSign up for my weekly email newsletter:https://pages.convertkit.com/740ba8cd83/92109b7172Take one of my online classes:To view the entire online school library, go to:http://anxioustoddlers.teachable.comClasses include:How to Crush Social Anxietyhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/crush-social-anxietyParenting Kids with OCDhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/child-ocdCrush Moral OCD in Kidshttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/moral-ocdTeaching Kids to Crush Anxietyhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/crush-anxiety Helping Kids with Anxiety or OCD Through Difficult Behaviorshttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/difficult-behaviorsHelping Kids Who are Scared to Sleephttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/scared-to-sleepHandling Sensory-Based Anxietyhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/sensory-anxietyLibrary of Live Anxiety and OCD Classes (20 hours of class replays)http://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/libraryUltimate list of helpful anxiety products:https://www.anxioustoddlers.com/reduce-child-anxiety/To join my private Facebook group visit:https://www.facebook.com/groups/ATparentinganxiouskids/For a list of my books visit:https://www.amazon.com/Natasha-Daniels/e/B011K5IIWAJoin the fun on my YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/c/anxioustoddlers78Other social places I hang out:http://www.facebook.com/anxioustoddlershttp://www.pinterest.com/anxioustoddlershttp://www.twitter.com/anxioustoddlershttp://www.instagram.com/anxioustoddlers***

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0:00.0	Welcome to AT Parenting Survival Podcast, where you get supporting guidance through the chaos of parenting.
0:07.0	Here's your host, Child Therapist Natasha Daniels.
0:13.0	Hey there, welcome to another episode of the AT Parenting Survival Podcast.
0:20.0	In this episode, we are going to be talking about five good things parents do that actually
0:26.3	hurt self-esteem, me included.
0:29.6	Before we get into that, I have a few things I just want to bring up. If you're new here or if you
0:34.4	haven't already you might want to consider joining my private Facebook groups. I have
0:39.4	one on general parenting and I have one on parenting anxious kids.
0:44.0	You can find those at anxious toddlers.com
0:48.0	and if you scroll down on my website
0:50.0	there are going to be these pink buttons
0:52.0	just click there and I will get notified that you want to join.
0:55.9	We're having some good talks in there and I would love for you to join me.
1:00.3	So let's get on with the topic for today. There are a lot of things that we do as parents that seem really good, but they really aren't.
1:11.0	So I want to talk about that today, but I do have to say, first, before I even get started, that our kids are going to totally survive. I think there is this whole philosophy right now, and I don't know if my parents and your parents had this issue as well and I just didn't know it because I was a kid,
1:29.0	but I feel like, you know, we're constantly scrutinized as parents and everybody's got an opinion and
1:36.6	everyone's got the latest and greatest book or read the latest and greatest blog post
1:41.6	or is in that special mommy group and with all of those
1:47.4	things and all that information it's like we shouldn't do this and you shouldn't do that
1:50.7	and you know this is bad this is good and I feel like it makes all of our head
1:55.7	spin and I'm a child therapist and it makes my head spin I'm here to tell you that
2:01.7	you know our kids are going to survive. I survived and we would pile up into the station wagon and they didn't have seatbelts. You know, there's a lot of things going on back in my day that we would never do now.
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