Al-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-o-lac. You're listening to the Gullam podcast.

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Millions of people across the world are benefiting from the Gullam podcast for free. To help us continue our mission and invest in your Sudkajaria today, please visit supportgolom.com and donate generously. And jazakal-ach for listening. In a beautiful hadith, the Prophet, in a very real way,

addresses life situations that we all deal with inevitably.

The Prophet, sallu alexand says,

la yehill to bea hajura his ahahua fowka thalatha a yeoman,

that it is not permissible for any believer to completely disregard, disown their Muslim brother for more than three days. Now the Prophet Salad Islam is talking about something very real.

And that very real.

And that very real thing is conflict is inevitable.

Disagreement is bound to happen.

None of us are perfect.

We were not created to be perfect.

And so it's inevitable that we're going to end up in some kind of a disagreement or conflict

with one another. And that's okay.

But how do you navigate that disagreement and that conflict once it has occurred?

Well, the Prophet, sallu a alexand also is addressing the fact that we're not just machines.

You can't just flip a switch. Somebody offended me. Now, I'm supposed to just flip a

switch and be totally okay. All of a sudden, immediately in an instant, that's not how people work.

So the Prophet Saladi Saddam says, needing three days to process this thing, to internal, to figure it out how you feel about it internally,

to deal with it, to process it, and to get back to a point and a place where you've kind of found your center and your piece is very reasonable.

You need that time, but you also don't need all the time. So the Prophet

Salad Islam says, take three days. Pray, reflect, think, make doa, get advice, get counsel. But in three

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