Get it the bird show. Hi producer Katie here. Is that a crossroads? Probably really use Kristen's help on this one

She's the one that put me into panic mode. I'm sorry

When we drink on the beach and then we get in these deep meaningful conversation. I started to freak out

What did you do to Katie? What did you do? She asked me a question about

Children, right and for those who don't know I'm a lesbian

So of course I have to actually plan when I want to have kids and I think it started when you asked me

What the ethnicity was going to be of the child you asked me if I wanted to mix kid or not

I wish all Kristen's face just then

The conversation is coming back to me and I'm also wondering if maybe Edibles had been

We had a really lovely time

But that that led to a wormhole

Yeah of a conversation because as we were talking about that

I let her know that more often than like more likely my child will be mixed because

Looking for a donor and going to a bank only 4% or fewer of donors are black

Is that right? I know I found that fast. Oh wow

For all sperm donors so more than it's been pretty successful

It would probably be one percent

But Nick

So I that's the one thing that I had to account for and start thinking about but then it's also how do I want to do this

Because it would be very expensive. Yeah, this is when the call like so the call the entire conversation

Was highly fascinating and I am a huge advocate

You don't ask a woman when they're having kids if they're having kids

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