Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to

wish you a happy two-year anniversary for the podcast. And I want to share with you just one

little piece of advice that I've been thinking about recently as well for dating.

Before we get into that, I want to let you know about my free guide called copy and paste

texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. And the link for that is in

the show notes. And just this last week, I was doing one of the free 15-minute calls with a woman.

She was like, you know, like online dating, it's not really working for me. I thought I had a good

call with somebody and then he never wrote me again. And that's what we

ended up coaching on was, okay, so you had a great call with somebody. And she was kind of in the mindset

that I talk about on the podcast of a little bit of the game playing or he should text first or

obviously if he's not messaging me after that means he's

not interested and i told her you know he's thinking the exact same thing so maybe you should text

him and see like how he's doing and if he wants to continue connecting and then we had a consult a few

days later and she was like hey i just had a date with him this

morning so um just another little reminder so many of my clients have that mindset of the guy is

supposed to ask you out the guy is supposed to text you after and yes if you feel like you're

pushing things forward all the time then then after a while, if it feels

like draining and dreadful, then of course you want to notice that. But if it's just like those

silly rules of who should text first and who should text how much and all of that, that's ultimately

not going to create the kind of results that you want in dating.

So, with that, I want to invite you if you haven't already to schedule a free little 15-minute

session with me. You can ask me any dating question that you want, and it's a really fun way

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