Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're

going to be talking about deciding what to think. Before we get into that, I want to let you know about my free guide called copy and

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tips in there for how to navigate those awkward conversations and uncomfortable,

anxiety-inducing situations in the early stages of dating.

So that's completely free, and there's a link for that in the show notes.

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where you can just ask me any dating question that you want, and I answer it for you within the 15 minutes and I coach you on it,

then that link is in the bio of my Instagram page, which is just my first and last name, Amber Grupenman.

And lastly, if you're interested in one-on-one coaching to improve your dating results, then I'm actually

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And I'll let you know on that call when that is, because it might be different than it is right now as I'm recording this podcast.

And the link to schedule a coaching consultation is going to be in the show notes.

Okay, so let's talk about deciding what to think. So this is actually my favorite

part of coaching, and it's one of my favorite things that I do with clients. And like, as soon as I see

an opportunity to do this, I like instantly get really giggly and like hyper.

And you'll see why in a minute. So basically, let me just explain the premise of it.

We have circumstances in life, the facts of our situation, they are neutral.

And neutral means that different people could have a different

experience of the same circumstance depending on what they think about it. So we have the circumstance,

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