Power and Oral Sex #693
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 4 September 2024
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
Today we dive into two listener emails on the topic of oral sex within a marriage and the dynamics of power that can be associated with it.
Everyone has different preferences and aspects of sex that they enjoy more than others - so we look at the issue through the lens of power and how it can be a way for people to feel sexy and in control.
Our conversation also addresses a listener's frustration with their spouse's reluctance to engage in oral sex and the power dynamics at play in their relationship.
Takeaways
People have different preferences and aspects of sex that they enjoy more than others.
Engaging in oral sex can be a way for individuals to feel sexy and in control.
Power dynamics can play a role in sexual encounters, and it's important to navigate them in a healthy and consensual way.
Open communication and self-reflection are key to addressing challenges and frustrations in a sexual relationship.
Marriage should not be based on quid pro quo or manipulative power plays, but on love, collaboration, and mutual pleasure.
On the Xtended Version ...
A listener emails in about a fear he has that his girlfriends physical appearance may lead to potential performance issues if they get married. Even though she is perfect in every way!
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| 0:00.0 | As we start the show today, Pam, have you noticed the trend of, it seems to be more |
| 0:10.3 | and more that people listen to something on their phone with no headphones. |
| 0:15.8 | Like they'll have a game on, they'll have some show, some YouTube video, something and they're just in the crowd and they just have it on |
| 0:26.4 | full volume in the restaurant and they're just listening |
| 0:28.8 | airport yeah I'm coming out of Walmart and there's a lady sitting that's an employee right there at the door |
| 0:35.0 | watching a show no headphones and it's just we can all hear whatever it is she's watching at that moment |
| 0:42.1 | if it's our show we want them. |
| 0:44.6 | Everybody to listen, don't we? |
| 0:46.6 | I was going to give the little plug if this is you, listen to this episode and do it loudly and proudly. |
| 0:52.3 | We would love that particularly this one. This one could be a little |
| 0:55.7 | spicy with some of the topics and content we're going to cover today, but it's just an interesting |
| 1:02.2 | how things have shifted. |
| 1:04.0 | Yeah, it seems. |
| 1:06.0 | Yeah, share it with those that need it, others. |
| 1:09.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:11.0 | Well, this is X-Men Marriage Radio where we're trying to have on a straightforward |
| 1:15.1 | conversations obviously about how we think life should be going and what we think would be better |
| 1:20.3 | for everybody. |
| 1:21.3 | So put your headphones on everybody. put your headphones on everybody |
| 1:22.8 | put your headphones on come on everybody else doesn't want to listen to what |
| 1:25.9 | you're listening to but what we're trying to do here with what we want you to |
| 1:29.1 | listen to is things that will help and increase the intensity of connection in your marriage and the depth |
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