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POV You're My Therapist

POV Rewind: In Absolute Defense of Needing Validation

POV You're My Therapist

Divine Philemond

Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.8610 Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2023

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Throwing it back to the episode I listen to when I need a reminder that my sad girl feelings are very valid! Betweent the dreary weather, the state of the world and so much more, this summer has been a bit of a bummer and it can be easy to feel like you're being over dramatic. This episode is a reminder that no....you're not being that dramatic, you're a lover girl and that makes things ten times harder. it's fine. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pov-youre-my-therapist/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Hello, welcome to POV or my therapist, the podcast where I vent. You listen and you do not get paid. So right off the bat, letting you guys know that merch is 30% off. So if you have been waiting to get your merch, this is the opportune time. I am trying to clear out inventory

0:23.3

for our next batch of merch for season three, which I am so excited about. And everything is 30%

0:30.5

off. If you didn't know, it's because you're not signed up to my newsletter. So you should also

0:37.3

change that while you're on

0:38.5

the website. So today's episode is a rewind all the way back to 2021. And this is one of my favorite

0:48.2

episodes. It's an episode that I honestly refer back to a lot because I really was spitting facts in that episode.

0:57.1

I was spitting a lot of facts.

0:59.7

So every time I need a reminder that I am a bad bitch, that it's okay, that I'm a lover

1:06.0

girl, that, you know, every time I just need to hear myself tell myself that what I'm going through

1:15.3

is valid, I listen to this episode. It comes highly recommended by all my friends, by me. So stick

1:24.1

around and yeah, I'll see you soon.

1:29.3

On TikTok a really long time ago and I sent them an email and I don't, I cannot find the

1:35.6

fucking email and I search high and low for their name, but I could not find it.

1:40.3

But I think that one provides therapy for everybody. so like you really just have to go on a

1:48.0

deep dive of free therapy and free counseling um and you will find stuff I promise you you will

1:54.3

find free therapy because a lot of like mental health is a huge thing and they want you to get

2:00.0

better so um yeah do that The second thing that a lot of you guys were asking me about was, um, I don't know why, but the other TikTok I made about rich men and treating me nice, um, kind of blew up a little. Well, it didn't blow up. Uh, not a blur up, but like it got a lot of traction and the bitches was asking questions. And the thing is, I don't know how to answer your questions, girl. Like, I don't know how to answer these questions. Um, they're asking like how to get a rich guy. I don't fucking know. I said, I have just been lucky that the last couple guys I went out with were wealthy and that

2:34.4

they did not mind spoiling me. If I knew what I was doing, I would still be with these guys.

2:40.0

I don't know what I'm doing. Okay? But another question that I got was how did I stop?

2:48.4

Y'all are going to be disappointed in this answer. How did I stop seeking validation?

2:52.9

The thing is, I don't think I've ever actually really stopped seeking validation. I think I have

2:57.8

just gotten into a point where it doesn't drive my fucking existence, okay? Um, because we're always

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