So this is definitely an impromptu episode. Listen, I had this on my mind because I have gotten two messages from people who are dealing with a relationship.

And I know we spoke on another episode about relationships, but can I just pour into you for a minute about your worth?

Listen, the relationship that did you bad that had no sense of

respect in the middle and a correlation between you and that other person deserves to be annulled.

It deserves to not happen. Because many times if we keep going in with what we know and what we see and what we experience, knowing that the person is no good for us, they tear us apart.

And what are we left with?

Emptiness, right?

We lose sight of who we are.

We lose sight of our own being.

We don't even have the capacity to move forward and honor ourselves.

So the person who was not for you, be gracious that they're no longer in your life.

They showed you something on the other end of this.

Yeah, I get it, baby.

You got your tears.

You've been crying and soaking.

I mean, the experience that you had with this person, it means something.

But how many tears did you shed because of the disrespect that they gave you in the relationship,

not honoring and loving you the way that they should have?

Many times we get caught up in the longevity of it.

We wanted to last because breaking up means that it's somewhat of a failure, that we didn't do what was right, that if we would have held on a little while longer, if we would have poured a little bit into another person, maybe if we would have just allowed things to happen a little while longer, it would

have gotten better. Well, let me tell you something. Many times it doesn't. And I never want

another person to put themselves in a state of mind, a frame of thinking in a space where they

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