Porn Problems (with Dave and Ashley Willis)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2024

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Today we begin the MOST POPULAR series of the podcast — COUPLES THERAPY!!! Over the next four weeks, I’ve invited couples to join me on the podcast for ON-AIR couples therapy sessions, where we pull back the curtain on marriage, and talk through the hard things in order to get to the other side! You will love this series, and you will be inspired by these courageous couples and their stories. The conversations are raw, real, and authentic…for a look into marriage you’ve never had before. Today’s couple is Dave and Ashley Willis! You may recognize their name from their ministry and work at XO marriage. Today, Dave and Ashley get real about a really difficult season they navigated in their marriage including stress, porn addiction, and deceit. But I know they are not alone. I hear from so many of you that are battling porn problems in your marriage right now, and it’s an epidemic we have to face head on! Their journey of healing has not stopped, and God has used their healing to impact so many other couples… I know you will be blessed by this on air session! I can’t wait for you to hear this powerful episode! Tune in today! Additional Ways To Listen: iHEART RADIO Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:33.5	It had nothing to do with not being wildly attracted to my wife. I think sometimes wives feel this guilt that somehow like they're not enough and that's why their husband went to porn. But porn affects men and women. It's not just a male issue. It's men and women. And it has nothing to do with their spouses not doing something. It's a sin that each one of us that falls into, we fall into it through
0:55.9	our own sin and we wound the people around us. We wound our spouse, but it's certainly never a spouse's
1:01.2	fault that you fall into porn. Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional
1:14.4	counselor, national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege
1:20.6	of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and
1:25.5	relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air,
1:30.2	authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give
1:36.4	my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.
1:42.3	Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,
1:47.0	mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally, together.
1:52.0	None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life,
1:57.0	but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud and honored to be having these
2:03.4	conversations with men and women who are courageously paving the way for open and honest
2:08.8	conversations about their personal journey of healing. So if you're ready, let's talk.
2:18.3	It is February, which means our couples therapy sessions are rolling back out.
2:25.9	I'm so excited about these on-air conversations with real-life couples.
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