Is It Boundaries? Or Is It Control? (with Cristy and Nick)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 13 February 2024

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Today we continue our MOST POPULAR series of the podcast — COUPLES THERAPY!!! I’ve invited couples to join me on the podcast for ON-AIR couples therapy sessions, where we pull back the curtain on marriage, and talk through the hard things in order to get to the other side! You will love this series, and you will be inspired by these courageous couples and their stories. The conversations are raw, real, and authentic…for a look into marriage you’ve never had before. Today’s couple is struggling with boundaries with the opposite sex! After overcoming an affair, they find themselves navigating what is OK and not OK in their marriage. She’s feeling insecure and jealous, and he’s feeling misunderstood and controlled… And in this episode, I help them unpack their needs, fears, and struggles as they come head to head with their differences. I can’t wait for you to hear this powerful episode! Tune in today! Additional Ways To Listen: iHEART RADIO Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Are you a smart booker or a silly booker?
0:07.0	Smart bookers get access to a three airport lounge by booking a five-star holiday with On the Beach.
0:13.0	Silly bookers? Well, enjoy those cues at the bar.
0:17.0	Stop booking around and visit Onthebeach.co.
0:20.0	Conditions apply. Seven night minimum stay, outbound only from selected airports for up to six people, at all protected.
0:26.6	On the beach.
0:33.6	Why is she focusing on such a small, minor thing and when things are going so well with us right now?
0:41.1	And it was frustrating for me.
0:43.0	And then I kind of go into a shell type of thing to protect myself.
0:46.7	Yeah.
0:47.5	I think whenever those things come up from this point on, the first thing you have to ask yourself, Nick, is this, how can I help Christy feel
0:59.0	secure? How can I help her feel secure in this moment? That's my only job, not to defend myself,
1:06.5	just to say, how can I help her feel secure in this moment? In those moments, Christy, your one and only job is,
1:13.7	how can I help him feel appreciated?
1:23.8	Are you ready to talk to me?
1:26.1	My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor,
1:30.1	national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of
1:35.4	helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
1:41.5	The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style
1:46.9	sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests and callers an
1:52.8	opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor. Each of these episodes is meant
1:58.6	to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,
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